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My Sharks History

[Note by Dave Valentine, 01/24/09 12:55 PM PST ]

    My Sharks history is probably not near as interesting as Morti’s.  It certainly doesn’t involve international intrigue.  It’s more like a long and winding road with a cast of old geezers.  (What else would you expect?)
    My first exposure to hockey was at age 11, when my dad took me to watch the Oklahoma City Blazers.  Wait!  Before you start guffawing at the thought of a hockey team in Oklahoma, let me fill you in.  This was 1965.  These were days of the Original Six, and the Blazers were the top farm team of the Boston Bruins.  The best talent Boston was hoarding skated at the Fairgrounds Arena.  In ‘65, ‘66, and ‘67 the Blazers won the CHL championship behind quite a few future NHL stars.  Most of you young’uns won’t recognize the names, unless a few current and former GM’s come to mind.  But for the sake of  any purists, or students of hockey history out there here are some of the guys I watched when I was a tad.
Harry Sinden, Gerry Cheevers, Bernie Parent, Doug Favell, Glen Sather, Derek Sanderson, Wayne Cashman, JP Parise (Zach’s dad), Ross Lonsberry, Rick  MacLeash, Reggie Leach, Dallas Smith, Ivan Bolderiv, and Jean Pronovost.  Should you actually care about any of those names, Wikipedia has some pretty nice bios on most of them.  So anyway, it’s no surprise I was a Boston fan also.
    Mind you, these were days long before satellite TV, ESPN, or even cable.  I got my news by diligently following the local paper every morning, and eventually Stars and Stripes, when I was stationed overseas in the Navy.
    Fast forward to 1976 when I returned to San Diego, still in the Navy, and had the great fortune to see Bobby Hull and Gordie Howe playing in the WHA, and skating against the San Diego Mariners. 
    In 1981 I ended up in the Bay Area, still a Boston fan.  I mean, what else was there?  BS (Before Sharks, in this case) a group of business men in the Bay Area, hockey enthusiasts all, were working to get a franchise somewhere in the region.  These guys got a few pre season games scheduled in Oakland for several years.  I don’t know their connection to George Gund (although I’m certain there is some thread there).  One of those guys was the Chief of my police department.  We, local cops, always got first shot at great seats for those games.  It became an annual event for us.  Normally a three game series.  The first would be a mauler party.  A whole bunch of drunk cops in motorhomes, playing street hockey in the Oakland Arena parking lot.  The second game we’d take our kids.  And for the final game, we’d act like the first two days didn’t happen, take our wife’s, and hope no one at that last game recognized us from the first.
    Eventually, as history will bear me out, the Gunds landed the Sharks franchise in San Jose.  I was able to attend my first NHL regular season hockey game that year, at the Cow Palace.  For the next 10 years I went to as many games as I could.  Begging, and occasionally buying my own tickets.
    As for Plank’s question, "How the hell did Dave Valentine end up being a Shark’s fan in South Carolina?"  Well, that’s pretty simple (and if you’ve read this far you say "Why don’t you just tell us, already?") I was injury retired from my department in ‘99.  I hung around the Bay Area for a few years.  But, I gotta tell you, my retirement check, while although not bad, wasn’t cutting it in the economics of California.  Then someone told me about NHL Center Ice.  Hell, that made it easy.  I packed up the truck and moved to.....South Carolina. 

So, there you have it.  The old guy in South Carolina.  Playing and watching hockey for over 40 years.

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Oklahoma --> South Carolina = Domestic Intrigue

Great write up, Dave – and boy am I jealous you got to see Bernie Parent (amongst many others… some of whom I WILL have to look up on Wikipedia, admittedly) in Oklahoma.

+1 to you, sir.

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by Mr. K. on Jan 22, 2009 3:07 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

That was great!!

I hear that hockey in the Carolinas got a real boost after the canes won the cup. Any truth to that?

Crack open a Cheerwine for all of us here.

by Morti on Jan 22, 2009 3:19 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

Perhaps

But only in North Carolina. Here in SC, the only thing anyone, other than my SO and I, care about is Gamecock football. We actually had an ECHL team here for there first couple of years I was here. Not bad, considering. But the University drove them out of town too.

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by Dave Valentine on Jan 22, 2009 3:27 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Sorry to hear that.

But you still have unrestricted access to Cheerwine! So it’s not all bad.

Love that stuff.

by Morti on Jan 22, 2009 3:54 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Again mine will pale. I think I should just give myself a fail before I even begin typing. :)

Ever get the feeling we are on a collision course with reality?

by ang6666 on Jan 22, 2009 3:50 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

Come on! just write it already! ;)

by Morti on Jan 22, 2009 3:52 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

I second Morti

But to make Ang feel better – my Sharks “memory” is super vague.

My first game was during the first season at the tank, 93-94. I was 11 or 12. Pretty sure it was a win… I remember being satisfied, and I don’t remember asking “What’s a tie?” No memories of players’ names – my dad wasn’t a big hockey fan, so not much help to be had in that department. We sat in the uppers… lots of food to be had.

The biggest impression I had, however, was that I loved the flow of the game. Don’t get me wrong – I like baseball, but the game is slow. Exciting, but slow. I had never seen anything like hockey before – and I knew it was my favorite game. I didn’t even care about the score – it was fast enough to keep me entertained, so that goals didn’t provide the only excitement. Can’t recall if there was an actual fight – I seem to recall roughing, and my dad explained that it was a way of indirectly protecting one’s own teammates. Seemed reasonable to me…

Through the years, I would attend probably one game a season – whenever my dad was given tickets (we were a bunch of home bodies, so going out of our way to purchase tickets never really entered anyone’s head). Owen Nolan was a favorite of mine – I remember being excited whenever he came to the ice (and I loved the fact that he was born in Belfast – I was a geography fiend). Vinny Damphousse was another. I distinctly remember training myself of the difference between Mike Ricci and Mike Rathje (one was a defenseman, and one was unspeakably cool and ugly). I remember how fast Marco Sturm was – lightning on ice.

But my hockey I.Q. was (and compared to others, still is) pretty dim… though it was improving. Because I always associated sporting events with my dad, my attendance was dependent upon him being there, too.

Then came college – I was divorced from all sports on account of my studies. Even the Giants’ World Series run (which was in town – I went to SF State) was on the periphery of my existence. The Sharks (including their 2004 Conference Final run) were marginalized as well. I cheered without knowing what the heck was going on – there were (gasp) more important things for me to focus on. I actually think I only made it to one game during my four years at college… I watched maybe two additional ones on T.V. I’m probably exaggerating, but that’s how driven I was in school – and probably why I’m a teacher now.

Post-lockout, I was a new man – girl in hand (alas, no more), I had a new surrogate for my father (who was much better looking), and we delighted in our hometown team’s success, which has yet to abate since 2005.

Ok, Ang – your turn ;-)

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by Mr. K. on Jan 22, 2009 4:26 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Okay, so I don't know....

if it’s punctuation, or just Old Man Syndrome….but are you saying your father was better looking than your new surrogate?

“Post-lockout, I was a new man – girl in hand (alas, no more), I had a new surrogate for my father (who was much better looking),”

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by Dave Valentine on Jan 22, 2009 4:36 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Helloooooo...

It’s my punctuation. Ditch those parentheses, and you have your meaning there.

Though I DO get my good looks from my dad, my (ex-)girlfriend was very pretty.

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by Mr. K. on Jan 22, 2009 4:54 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

thanks for clearing that up.

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by Dave Valentine on Jan 22, 2009 4:59 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

I did!! :)

Ever get the feeling we are on a collision course with reality?

by ang6666 on Jan 22, 2009 11:43 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Just do it

I mean, after mine….how bad can it be?
Think of it as couch time….pyscho therapy….no pun intended

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by Dave Valentine on Jan 22, 2009 4:02 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Great story Dave, I really enjoyed that. Those exhibition games at Oakland Arena sound like something I would have been definitely interested in.

J.P. Parise- are you kidding me man? My dad used to talk about him all the time when I was younger, he was actually one of his favorite players in college. Small world.

Once again, excellent stuff.

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by Mr. Plank on Jan 22, 2009 5:30 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

a little addendum

and perhaps the real story of how I became a true blue hockey fan. JP was my favorite player on the Blazers back then. I talked about him all the time. Finally my Dad encouraged me to write to him. So, at 12 or 13, I sat down and wrote him a fan letter. The contents of which I can not possible remember. For the remainder of the season I got to the mailbox first every day, looking for an answer to that fan letter. But, the season ended without any response. The season ended, summer came along, and I forgot all about hockey, and the mailbox, for a few months. Then one day my step mother handed me an envelope with strange handwriting….addressed to ME! But where the hell was that return address? Smooth Rock Falls, Ontario….and there, months later, during the off season, and at least a thousand miles away, JP answered my fan letter…..3 pages! Holy Cow! JP became my favorite player of all time at that moment.

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by Dave Valentine on Jan 22, 2009 5:42 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

A good example of how the times have really changed. The internet is a great thing (hey, just look at this site/other hockey blogs and all the people they have brought together), but something sentimental like that is really hard to come by nowadays- everything is boom boom boom get your information get on your way. There’s less truly defining moments like the one you just shared.

Does that make sense? Who knows. Regardless, great story.

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by Mr. Plank on Jan 22, 2009 5:53 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Makes sense

and with the internet I know all about JP. I have frequently thought of writing him again. I wonder if he would remember sending that dumb Okie kid a fan letter response 40 years ago?

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by Dave Valentine on Jan 22, 2009 5:56 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Send him a copy...

Of part of his letter, if you have it [doubt you do, but one never knows, cause I would treasure that letter for always and forever, haha] and then you can say… “I HAVE PROOF!!”
lol
Ah, that’s awesome lol
Not that I didn’t mind your 40-years-of-history one, enjoyed that one too, but man.. the letter story is the best ;)

by AppleSweetRose on Jan 23, 2009 9:39 AM PST up reply actions   0 recs

I wish I could

I saved that letter for several years. Unfortunately my parents house burned down while I was home ported in Japan. I lost everything from my misspent childhood in the fire. Alas, no letter is to be had.
But, I gotta think that even in the darkest recesses of JP’s mind, he would remember sitting down to write that fan mail response. At least that’s what I keep telling myself

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by Dave Valentine on Jan 23, 2009 6:42 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Great story Dave.

It takes a big man to cry and it takes a bigger man to laugh at that man. -Jamie Baker

by Lurker Shark on Jan 23, 2009 12:38 AM PST reply actions   0 recs

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